My husband and i can be found in the middle-50s and also have already been together with her to have three decades. The previous couple of moments, he found it difficult and you may lost his hard-on. I don’t know why, and i think I thought that maybe it absolutely was me personally in some way. The problem is that people have no intimacy whatsoever. He’s never been severely demonstrative truly, and that i question should this be as their parents never ever were, but now i never ever touch, never ever keep give, never ever cuddle.

Sporadically, We have tried, but it’s really obvious he does not want me personally close him – he becomes stiff and you can shameful up until I let go. Currently, most of the talk you will find can become an argument and, in certain cases, it appears to be do not to speak whatsoever. Hence the idea of actually just starting to become close once again try not a thing I believe I would like to perform. I select most other lovers our years carrying give and being caring – actually my mothers, who happen to be now 80. Read more