So depending on the circumstance, relationship “boundaries” and what constitutes “cheating” have never been fully agreed to or even discussed constitutes a real problem. People assume their partner knows what they consider to be “cheating” but sometimes they don’t. This is a discussion every couple should have early on. If you have different definitions of cheating, you could be headed to trouble. In these circumstances, the probably-cheating spouse will be very defensive and not agree with you that they cheated. And therefore turist vizesinde Г‡inli bir kД±zla evlenebilir miyim, won’t show remorse. I think this is not the most common circumstance.

2. The Cheating Spouse is engaged in an “exit affair.” They used it to get out of their marriage. They have already decided the marriage is over and the affair was the method to do it – they found someone whom they wish to be with more than you, or have at least proven to themselves that there is indeed “something better out there” for them. And they want out. The affair is the self-proof they need to take that final step. So of course, they feel no remorse for cheating. It was just a means to an end.

It actually changes the way our brain functions to enhance pleasure and make us obsessively tied to the lover so that all other considerations seem like faint background noise

3. The Cheating Spouse has huge grievances against their spouse. Serious anger. They feel neglected, abused, misunderstood, unwanted and undesired by you for years. They may even feel they tried every possible tactic to get your attention before they launched their affair. Their affair was the only available means to them to get their critical emotional needs met since you would not. Therefore, they feel no remorse, even if it constitutes a massive betrayal. This is common Wayward Spouse thinking and again it confuses the “why” with “justification.” You can’t talk some Waywards out of this type of thinking. They may be correct – maybe you ARE a shitty spouse. Read more