This is my house, and I should have laid down he ground rules that said he was to knock on the front door just like any other houseguest. Houseguests do not help themselves to the food in my refrigerator. This is him living by the old rules as if this were his home, which it is not.

That is not to say that you cannot have a relationship with your ex, but it has to be radically different from the one you had while married

These ground rules are meant to protect you and prevent any situations that could lead to an upset. The less you have to do with your ex, the better. There are women who cannot have their exes in their lives for any reason other than the children. Read more